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Old 11-05-2014, 10:43 AM   #2116
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Correct, Don't Criticize
Tony Dungy

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“For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, just as a father, the son he delights in.”
– Proverbs 3:12

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When I first started working towards becoming a head coach, people wondered if I could do it. I wasn’t the type to yell at people. I wasn’t the type to get in people’s faces. They didn’t know if I could control the players. How would they respond to my coaching style? How would I handle being in charge of an entire team?

My style has always been one that relies on motivation, encouragement and teaching. I always want to help people get better. That’s the idea behind correction. It’s not about tearing people down. It’s about helping them improve. You have to let them know when they’ve done something wrong, but the goal is helping them became a better player and a better person.

There are certain things that are going to be done a certain way and they’re not negotiable. The punishment is already set and everyone knows it. But then if a rule is a broken and you have to correct, it’s best to avoid sharp criticisms but instead to discipline with love. That approach gives the person the best opportunity to change their behavior.

Jesus corrected by telling stories. He showed examples. He pointed things out. He didn’t just say, “This is wrong and this is right.” He corrected people by getting them to think. When He corrected His disciples, they walked away understanding that it was for their benefit.

As a society, we desperately need to develop young people that are correctable. The youth generation is sometimes difficult to correct because of the way they’ve gotten correction. They have rebelled against correction because they see it as criticism. When the time for discipline comes, sometimes it’s easier to demonstrate authority. It’s more difficult to build relationships because it takes time and patience.

But when we follow Jesus’ model of correction and avoid the temptation to criticize, we are better able to build long-lasting relationships and we increase our influence over those within our care.

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1.How would you describe your style of discipline?
2.In what ways does correction differ from criticism?
3.What are some things that you can do to become less critical and more encouraging as a coach?

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Proverbs 3:11-12; Hebrews 12:11; 2 Timothy 3:16-17

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Prayer: Father, thank you for loving me and helping me grow through correction. Help me to model Jesus’ style of correction to those that I teach and influence. Amen.
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Old 11-14-2014, 11:20 AM   #2117
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Heart Check
By Roger Lipe
November 14, 2014

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"Don’t work only while being watched, in order to please men, but as slaves of Christ, do God’s will from your heart."
–Ephesians 6:6

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Here’s a heart check—do we do what pleases our coaches all the time or only when they are watching? Do we do the right thing just to win their favor or because it’s right? In Ephesians 6:6, Paul was rather direct with the people of Ephesus about their work ethic.

I often watch teams closely during practice and as they warm up prior to competitions. I see players who give a great effort when the coach is watching, but as soon as the coach’s head is turned, some of those players immediately start cutting corners and cheating on drills. Their hearts are not fully with their coaches or their teammates. They fail the heart check.

Our challenge is to give the same effort when no one is watching as we do when the head coach is right beside us. That is called integrity. A whole heart will lead us to do the right thing whether anyone is watching or not.

As we prepare to compete, let’s give a whole-hearted effort to the pursuit of a great team victory. When we compete with integrity we don’t have to waste time looking over our shoulders.

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1. Do you do what pleases your coaches all the time or only when they are watching?
2. Do you do the right thing just to win their favor or because it’s right?
3. How about some of your teammates?
4. How would an attitude of integrity change you?

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Psalms 33:13-15; 143:10; 145:18

Overtime
Father, forgive me for cutting corners when I thought no one was looking. I want to be a person of integrity. Help me be obedient to You and walk above reproach on and off the field. Help me give 100 percent all of the time. Amen.
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Old 11-15-2014, 10:53 AM   #2118
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Heart Check
Roger Lipe

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"Don’t work only while being watched, in order to please men, but as slaves of Christ, do God’s will from your heart."
–Ephesians 6:6


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Here’s a heart check—do we do what pleases our coaches all the time or only when they are watching? Do we do the right thing just to win their favor or because it’s right? In Ephesians 6:6, Paul was rather direct with the people of Ephesus about their work ethic.

I often watch teams closely during practice and as they warm up prior to competitions. I see players who give a great effort when the coach is watching, but as soon as the coach’s head is turned, some of those players immediately start cutting corners and cheating on drills. Their hearts are not fully with their coaches or their teammates. They fail the heart check.

Our challenge is to give the same effort when no one is watching as we do when the head coach is right beside us. That is called integrity. A whole heart will lead us to do the right thing whether anyone is watching or not.

As we prepare to compete, let’s give a whole-hearted effort to the pursuit of a great team victory. When we compete with integrity we don’t have to waste time looking over our shoulders.

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1. Do you do what pleases your coaches all the time or only when they are watching?
2. Do you do the right thing just to win their favor or because it’s right?
3. How about some of your teammates?
4. How would an attitude of integrity change you?

Workout
Psalms 33:13-15; 143:10; 145:18

Overtime
Father, forgive me for cutting corners when I thought no one was looking. I want to be a person of integrity. Help me be obedient to You and walk above reproach on and off the field. Help me give 100 percent all of the time. Amen.
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Old 11-18-2014, 01:12 PM   #2119
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Who Will Stand?
By David Forester

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“I searched for a man among them who would repair the wall and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land so that I might not destroy it, but I found no one.”
— Ezekiel 22:30

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It was August 1984, at Alamo Heights High School. I burst into the middle of the locker room and yelled, “Who are we going to beat this week?” The room erupted and players and coaches celebrated like we had just won the championship, before we had even played a game! During that excitement my life changed direction. Louie Reiniger, one of our players, got in my face and yelled, “Coach, will you come to FCA tonight?”

God had waited 36 years for this moment, using Louie as a gap soldier to help an old, broken, lost coach find his way home. A gap soldier was a well-trained soldier, who, during an attack, would walk through a break in the castle wall and battle the enemy as they tried to rush in. The bad news for the gap soldier was that while he fought the enemy, preventing them from storming the castle, fellow soldiers were sealing the gap while he fought outside. Now that is unconditional commitment—the kind God desires from us.

That night at FCA, twelve athletes showed compassion and courage, talking about their enemies, how they needed to love, forgive, and befriend them. I had huge voids in my life. I went home that night, got on my knees, and asked Christ into my life. Now, each morning I ask God to use me, as He used Louie, in the lives of those with whom I come in contact.

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1. Who are the gap soldiers in your life? Will you thank the Lord for them, then call, write, or e-mail them and thank them personally?
2. Will you ask God to give you the will and courage to stand in the gap for your athletes, coaches, family, and friends?
3. Who were gap soldiers in the Bible? David, Daniel, Paul? Yes, but the Lord Jesus Christ is the ultimate gap soldier. He put it all on the line for us, and He gave His own life with unconditional commitment and love.

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Extra Reading: Ezekiel 22:23–31

Overtime
Lord, give me Your heart, Your courage, Your will, and Your strength. Make me a coach who will stand before You in the gap. Amen.
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Old 11-19-2014, 09:45 AM   #2120
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Not Too Deaf
By Roger Lipe
November 19, 2014


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Indeed, the Lord’s hand is not too short to save, and His ear is not too deaf to hear.
–Isaiah 59:1

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How do we pray about our sports lives? Do we regularly talk with God about each situation or just when things seem out of control? Which kind of prayer does God hear well? My answer may be surprising. It’s exciting to me that God doesn’t discriminate between my weakest prayers of panic and my most serene prayers of thanksgiving.

He clearly hears both. What’s more, He is responsive to both with His strong arm of protection and deliverance. In today’s competition, we must invite the Lord into each moment of the game. Let’s pray during pre-game and ask for His help and protection; pray as the competition reaches its height, seeking His power and wisdom for excellence; pray after it’s all over, giving thanks for the privilege of competing; and for the win or the loss. God is more than willing to hear about our best day or our worst moment.

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1. What do you pray about? Situations? People? Results?
2. Do you regularly talk with God about each situation or just when things seem out of control?
3. Which kind of prayer do you think God hears well?
4. How can we pray on game day? For what and for whom?

Workout
Psalms 10:17-18

Overtime
Lord, I’m so thankful that You hear my voice when I call Your name. Please help me remember to talk to You more, giving thanks when things go well and asking for Your help when things seem overwhelming. Amen.
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Old 11-20-2014, 09:20 AM   #2121
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The Ultimate Pre-Game Meal
Michael Hill

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"'My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to finish His work,' Jesus told them."
-John 4:34

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As athletes what we put into our bodies is very important. The pre-game meal may be the most important meal we eat. We have to make sure we get enough energy to last through the entire competition. This is our last chance to get the fuel we need.

In John, Jesus tells us of work that will actually GIVE us energy instead of using it. Doing God's work will give us the fuel we need to in order to succeed in the game of life. So what is the work that we should be doing? In Matthew 28:18-20 Jesus tells us very plainly what our "work" should be. We are to go out among the nations and build His Kingdom.

As part of TeamFCA, I challenge you to devote yourself to this kind of work. The mission of FCA is to "Present to coaches and athletes and all whom they influence the challenge and adventure of receiving Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord and serving Him in their relationships and in the fellowship of the church." Pay attention to how doing this feeds your soul. Make note of the energy it gives you. You may never look at food the same way again.

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1. Are we seeking to do God's work daily?
2. Are we asking God to show us where He wants us to work?
3. Are we studying God's Word daily to become better workers?
4. Today, what can I do to feed my soul?

Workout
Psalm 119:164
Matthew 6:11, 28:18-20
Acts 1:8, 17:11

Overtime
"Lord, show me where You want me to work, and I will serve You. Put the people in front of me who You want me to talk to today. Let Your words be heard with my voice. Take this life and use it to build Your Kingdom. In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, amen."
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Old 11-21-2014, 09:52 AM   #2122
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Memorize That Playbook
By Jarret Myers

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Instead, his delight is in the Lord’s instruction, and he meditates on it day and night.
–Psalm 1:2

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Football players come to camp and are handed a binder filled with plays, formations, and adjustments built to withstand any opponent during the season. A lot of work, foresight, and detail went into putting together what could be a championship playbook. However great a playbook may be, though, it is useless without memorization and proper execution.

Athletes are expected to memorize most, if not all of the playbook—to understand the concept, intention, and correct application of every play. That is because during the course of a game, things don’t always look like they are drawn, and players may have to make adjustments. To do so requires more than memorizing plays—they practice, study, watch films, and redraw them. A coach doesn’t say to meditate on a play, but that is exactly the intention.

In the desert, Jesus fended off Satan’s temptations with three words, “It is written.” When Jesus quoted Scripture, He didn’t have a Bible handy—just like a player can’t carry the playbook on the field during a game. He had the words hidden in His heart and knew the concept and when to apply it. The Bible is our championship playbook, written to withstand every scenario the enemy or life can throw at us. But, if our noses aren’t in the Book, we won’t find ourselves in the game.

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1. Have you ever been in a game and did not know the play? How did that feel?
2. Have you ever been questioned and didn’t know Scripture to back up what you said?
3. What passage of Scripture will you memorize and meditate on this week?

Workout
Psalm 119:11; Matthew 4:1-11; Mark 12:24; 2 Timothy 3:14-17

Overtime

Lord, thank You for providing a playbook for my life. Forgive my disobedience when it comes to memorizing and meditating on Your Word. Please help me be more disciplined and discerning. Lord, I ask that You use me for Your glory. Amen.
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